Dating tips for women in 20s
They were either variations of the “take her out to dinner and kiss her ass” variety (like that will get you laid fast) or the “lie to her and tell her you’re a doctor” variety (which was only good if you want one night stands…lying during the seduction phase is useless if you desire relationships or any other form of recurring sex). For most of my teenage and early adult years, I was under the impression that if I somehow “got” a woman to kiss me or have sex with me, I was somehow convincing her or tricking her into doing something she didn’t want to do.So in my early 20s, I was the typical beta stumbling around in the dark, trying to do what felt right (which is almost always wrong when it comes to women), not getting laid very much beyond when I got lucky. Only much later in life did I discover it’s actually the exact opposite.
Almost never is the past sexual experience of the man a make-or-break issue for a woman. So I compounded the lie by telling another lie (this is one of the many reasons I don’t lie to women; lies necessitate other lies) and told her that I “hadn’t had sex for a year”.I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.You young guys have no idea how fortunate you are to have the resources available to you today. Today I’m going to list the top seven dating tips and mindsets I wish I had known back then. The truth is women are far more sexual creatures than men are. The difference is the amount of rules and regulations women place around sex thanks to Societal Programming. This doesn’t mean you do anything against her will.If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.